Interesting Ways to Take You BDSM Play to The Next Level

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The world of BDSM is an exciting and pleasurable one. The possibilities are endless. If you have been into it for a while and want to take things to the next level, you are going to find this article useful. You see, doing the same thing over and over again is tiring and boring. To spice things up, you may have to leave your comfort zone.

In this article, we are going to be looking at some interesting ways to spice up your BDSM play. The tips and advice that will be discussed in this article are not exclusive to hardcore BDSM lover or those who have been into it for years. New comers can also learn a thing or two from it.

No one started as an expert in anything; we were one new and inexperienced at some point. But with time, we going better and better.

Having an open mind and being open to new ideas are two factors that will be critical to your BDSM success. Ignore these two, and you struggle to have a good time during the practice.

The switch

Don’t bottle yourself into the role of a dominant or submissive. Rather, see yourself as a switch that can change from dominant to submissive at the snap of a finger. If you are feeling dominant, play the role of the dominant, not the other way around.

Here is something you can try- Get your partner to provide oral pleasures to you. While he or she is doing that, try not to moan or act excited. Bottle up any expression and allow it to build up inside your body. After doing so for a while, slowly give attention to your body. The ripples of pleasures that will engulf you may make you feel like you are going to explode.

Alternatively, you can try out polyamory. You do this by calling another partner and talk dirty to them, while your partner is pleasuring you.

Don’t limit yourself to the few moves you are comfortable with. Gradually leave your comfort zone and try out new things. You will be shocked to see how much you have been missing. To get inspiration on how to spice up your relationship, read content similar to this, watch videos and ask your friends and work mate about it.

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Orgasm denial

Organism denial is a classic fun play that can make your BDSM session more enjoyable. Here is how you do it. Stimulate your partner till he or she is about to climax and then stop. Wait for a minute or two and repeat the process. You can choose to use a high powered sex machine or your hands for stimulation. If you are using a sex machine, you may have to decrease its power so that your partner doesn’t cum too soon.

You can take things to the next level by adding a ball gag to muffle the screams of your partner. Pay close attention to your partner especially if you are using a very powerful sex tool.

Nipple clamp

This is perfect for beginners and seasoned pros in the BDSM realm. All you need for this play is an adjustable nipple clamp. Using a nipple clamp is not as difficult or as complicated as you may think. All you need to do clip your partner’s nipple with the clamp and pull (gently) to see how much pain your partner can take.

Don’t limit yourself to this move alone. There are endless ways you can use nipple clamps in your BDSM play. You can read blog posts or watch oriental videos on it for inspiration. Keep in mind that the nipples are a very sensitive part of a woman body. So, if you use the nipple clamp correctly, you may be able to make your partner scream with pleasure or even cum.

Tech BDSM

Investing in high tech toys is one of the easiest but expensive ways to take your BDSM experience to a whole new level. Yes, choosing among the many toys that are on the market is likely going to be a challenge for you. Well, if that is the case, then you should start with toys you are familiar with or the ones you know how to use and slowly work your way up.

If you are a beginner and you know nothing about sex toys, then you should start with as master beta kit. Why? Well, it is because it is super easy to use. Even more, it will teach you how to program or set up unique vibration patterns for a vibrator.

All you need to do to get the most out of this tool is to follow the instruction that comes with it. Whether you are a submissive or a dominant, you will be able to get value from it. Yes, there are other toys similar to this, but what makes this one stand out is that it gives you the freedom to customize your own vibration pattern.

BDSM Phone-sex

Use this move only when your partner is away for a while. Here is how you pull it off. Call your partner and talk dirty. Carefully listen to each other moan or sigh. If you are the dominant, tell your partner not to cum until you have. As soon as you climax, hang up the phone. That’s it.

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If you are able to do this correctly, your partner is going to feel excited each time you call. After the scene, you are going to feel a warm and calming sensation. (Priceless)

Candle wax

Candle wax may sound extreme and scary, but in reality, it is not really that painful. To be frank, it is one of the most exciting ways to introduce pleasurable pain in your relationship. Make sure you do some research on the different types of candles because some candles burn hotter and can do more damage to the skin.

Role-playing

This is usually exciting for people who are new to BDSM. Role-playing is not as difficult as many say it is. See, you are not acting a movie, so chill and relax. Your goal should be to bring your deep fantasies to life.

Biting

This is excellent for people who are new to BDSM play. But before you try, make sure you first talk to your partner about it.

Final note

These are just a handful of ways to take your BDSM experience to a new stratosphere. Of course, these are by no means the only way to spice thing up. So, do more research and keep learning new ways to satisfy your sexual needs and that of your partner.

 

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