Questions To Ask A Bisexual Girl

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Going on your first date with your potential lover can be intimidating. This is especially true if she is a bisexual girl that you met on a dating app, internet dating site or through your friends. You might know very little about her, yet you are expected to sit with her and make conversation.

What should you do or say? Here are some questions to ask a bi girl that will help you know her better.

Start Off Simple and Slow

When you meet for the first time, the first queries should be general – the get-to-know-you questions. They might seem boring, but they will surely break the ice and start a conversation.

After asking her how she is doing and if she had any problem finding your meeting place, start out with some of these questions for the first date. These are not questions about bisexuality but questions that will help you know her better.

  • 1. What part of the city do you live in?
  • 2. Where were you born?
  • 3. When did you relocated to where you live?
  • 4. Do you work?
  • 5. Where do you work?
  • 6. Do you have a sister or a brother?

Now that you have gotten the basics about her, it is time to get to know about her personality and if you have anything in common with her. Still, don’t dive into bisexual questions. Ask some of these questions:

  • 7. What is your hobby?
  • 8. What kinds of movies do you like watching?
  • 9. What kinds of books do you like reading? Who is your favorite author?
  • 10. What kind of music do you listen to? Who is your favorite singer?
  • 11. Have you been on vacation recently? Where did you go?
  • 12. Do you own a pet?
  • 13. Do you have a kid?

Listen to her responses and ask any follow up queries that you might have or if she says something interesting. Now you can engage further and ask her general questions about bisexuality.

7 Questions to Ask a Bi Person

Here are some great questions that you can ask a bi girl. You can ask her these questions when you become comfortable with her.

1. Why don’t people take bisexual women seriously when they say they are a bisexual?

When people say that they are straight, everybody takes that statement at its face value. A lesbian too doesn’t encounter much amusement when she reveals her identity.

Then why is it a big deal when a woman says she is bisexual? Think about it.

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2. Why do you think that there so many incidents of bisexual ladies being abused, raped, and attacked by their husbands?

According to a 2010 study, bisexual ladies are two times more likely to encounter sexual assault from their straight women, lesbians, or partners. This fact is disturbing and alarming but you need to ask your girl this question as part of your questions for bisexual.

There is also a need for the public to know about this and come up with measures to tackle it.

3. Why do you think depression is more common in bisexual ladies than lesbians or straight women?

A 2011 study revealed that depression, binge-drinking, and stress are more frequent in bi ladies that lesbians and straight women. The study did not state the cause or effect, but you can seek the answer from the bi girl.

One of her answers might be social stigma which is believed to be a major contributing factor.

4. Why do you think there so much prejudice against bisexual people

One of the best questions to ask a bi girl is why she thinks there is so much prejudice against bi people. This is not only common for straight people but also some members of LGBT society – lesbians, gays, and transgender.

The B in the community forms the biggest part (meaning that more people see themselves as bisexual than transgender, lesbian, or gay. Ask her why there is still much prejudice even when the bisexuals are the majority.

5. Why do you think bisexual people are highly likely to be on food stamps compared to straight people?

This question should also be part of your bisexual questions. Studies have shown that there are more Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, and Transgender individuals on food stamps when you compare with straight people. Actually, they are 1.7x more likely to appear on food stamps that straight people.

However, bisexuals are significantly worse that there counterpart in this community. Ask her why she thinks this happens.

6. Why do you think bisexual ladies report more mental health issues than lesbian and heterosexuals?

Bisexual women, maybe due to rejection from the LGTB community and straight people, are highly likely to experience mental health problem than gay, lesbian, and straight people. You can also ask her what she thinks about this issue.

7. What do you think the society can do to create a better community for bisexuals?

Among the questions for bisexual people should be how they think the society can help them have a better life. In fact, this is the most significant question of all since it can help your bi girl to integrate with the society more effectively.

Better integration will save her from the negative effects, economical and psychological, originating from the thought of being left out.

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Show her that you are concerned about her by asking questions that will help her become a stronger bisexual. Show that you really care about her.

Questions You Should Avoid

While there are many other questions about bisexuality that you can ask, ensure that you avoid these questions:

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  • How did you know that you are bisexual? This is a question that you should never ask.
  • Are you certain that this won’t pass? Bisexuality is not a phase.
  • Do you prefer men or women? Or is it 50/50? This fluctuates from time to time.
  • Will you marry a woman or man? This is one of the most frustrating questions that you can ask a bi girl.
  • Have you slept with a woman and a man? How can you tell you are bisexual if you haven’t?
  • How many women and men have you been with?
  • When did you last sleep with a woman or a man?
  • How can you love your partner if you are attracted to woman and men? Will you not cheat?

As a rule of thumb, bisexual questions should be polite and you shouldn’t ask her any question that you wouldn’t like to be asked. So, stop asking bisexual women these questions and start asking useful questions like the one we have listed above.

 

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